April 2013
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Things my SD says attracts him to talk to certain...
nikki-bisou22:
-When Ladies have Appropriate Pictures: That means your main pics should be modest. I didn’t realize this but the sexier you are in your pics (i.e less clothing, lip licking, whatever) the more sex-focused SDs will be attracted to your profile. These men are most of the time cheap and don’t care about you or your interests. Try to focus on pictures that have you smiling, looking...
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How to Maintain Multiple Sugar Daddies.
allnaturalsugar:
a-pinch-of-sugar-please:
So as you guys know, I currently have 3 sugar daddies right now: CEO, Florida, and Southern. It’s actually been quite easy having more than one sugar daddy for me. I honestly think my current sugar lifestyle is a lot easier and calm compared to my past sugaring experience. And I’ll explain how I handle it. So I’m going to break this tips post into 3...
Investment tip.
bronzesugar:
If you are new at sugaring, consider using your first earning on your job.
- Find local photographers on ModelMayhem.com that are experienced. You can get free shoots or pay a good amount for an amazing photographer.
- Invest in your hair. (Guys pay attention to this. Styled/dyed/healthylooking) Mostly for having your photo taken.
-Try buying quality nail strengthener if you do...
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trufflessextape:
Just a bit of advice……if you’re trying to remain ‘anonymous’ but posting body shots of yourself, you should probably blur out/edit out your tattoos.
edit: birthmarks and body scars too.
They’re more identifiable than you might think.
March 2013
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FAQ (now there is a link to find this):
calisugarbaby:
Sugar Baby Stuff:
What does “POT”, “SD”, and “SB” mean? POT= Potential sugar daddy
SD= Sugar daddy
SB= Sugar baby
Could you explain me what is this sugar baby thing?
A sugar baby is a young woman (or man) that gets financial assistance (is taken care of) by a wealthy older person (woman or man). He or she is called a sugar daddy or mommie. “Sugar Baby” can mean many...
February 2013
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How to make a guy fall in love with you
seduce-reuse-recycle:
It’s simple really. The best way to successfully win hearts is to stop trying so hard to find someone who’ll take yours. If you choose to make romance your last priority, your new attitude will naturally lead you to start exhibiting the exact kinds of behaviors that drive dudes wild. So the important thing here is not your actions so much as the mindset behind them. If you...
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Advice I wish I got when I was young
eastcoastsugar:
Internships
Internships will singlehandedly determine your career success. While you are in college look for the absolute best internship you can with a large, well known company. If you need to do an internship across the country, definitely apply to a program where you get low cost housing and just go for it. The time/money devoted to your internship will pay off. Do two of...
Links for escorting information
eastcoastsugar:
A few of you inboxed me and I figured it’s just easier to share them all right here. As I mentioned before, this is just based on my previous research. If I’m wrong on anything or if my sources are bunk please feel free to let me know. The last thing I would want to do is pass out bad information.
Internet Escorts Handbook:
This book has the absolute basics, and you can order...
Tips for Dealing with Difficult People
onlinecounsellingcollege:
1. Avoid touchy topics that can stir strong emotions such as politics, money or past hurts and grievances. Be alert to any hooks designed to draw you in – and quickly change the subject to one that is more neutral.
2. Recognise that you’re never going to change that person. They’re happy as they are – and like their personality. So if you try to change their mind or to...
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Top 10 Sugar Daddy Dating Websites!! Is your TOP...
allnaturalsugar:
babywithhighstandards:
pattilabelt:
honeysugarbeem:
1. Sugardaddyforme.com
2. Sugardaddie.com
3. SeekingArrangement.com
4. AffluentArrangements.com
5. TrueSugarDaddy.com
6. MarryMeSugarDaddy.com
7. MillionaireMate.com
8. SugarDaddyBabes.com
9. WealthyMen.com
10. Married Secrets.com
*Opens all the websites in different tabs*
Thank you
yaaaassss
In my opinion
scarlettswhispers:
innocent-sugar:
There’s nothing more distasteful and off-putting you can do than ask for a certain sum of money just to meet up with someone. (Travel expenses are acceptable and understandable though)
But just asking for money from this stage already, as in “I will not bother coming to meet you unless you give me $200 ” is thirsty as fuck and speaks volumes about your...
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Sugar Baby Freestyling: How
eastcoastsugar:
So if you’re like me and you’re completely over meeting guys trying to get a discount GFE or even worse creepy potential rapists on the internet the next step is to freestyle.
Like I said before, there are potential sugar daddies EVERYWHERE so you need to act that way. Always stay on point in public. Take the extra 10 minutes before you leave the house to make the effort to look...
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An Education.
ionlyspeakgreen:
For sugars of course.
If only our daddies watched trashy reality tv and listened to current music.
Brush up on the following.
1. The Economy, Stock Market, Finance and Politics - cnn.com, online.wsj.com, businessweek.com
2. Sports - not just football, basketball and baseball. But tennis, golf, sailing and sometimes fishing and hunting. I know its a lot, but check out the...
December 2012
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trophywifetruffle:
toastysugar:
California Sugar Baby: Follow this Step by Step to become a Sugarbaby
luxurioussugar:
sugartruffle:
First you need to go to the Tundra in Ontario Canada and sacrifice a goat.
Once you sacrifice the goat, drain its blood and put it in a cheesecake frosted pot.
Take the pot and put it on the stove and bring the blood to a boil.
And 16 cups of sugar and 3...
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Follow this Step by Step to become a Sugarbaby
trophywifetruffle:
sugartruffle:
sugartruffle:
First you need to go to the Tundra in Ontario Canada and sacrifice a goat.
Once you sacrifice the goat, drain its blood and put it in a cheesecake frosted pot.
Take the pot and put it on the stove and bring the blood to a boil.
And 16 cups of sugar and 3 garlic cloves (to ward off vampires)
Put the blood on simmer and then go outside and...
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Trust Fund Babies
trophywifetruffle:
Ok, a lot of girls say they don’t trust SD’s under thirty, but I was think “What about the trust fund babies?” Now trust fund babies can range in any age but I’d say stick to the 25-30 age range. Now there is two types of trust fund babies. The one you like and the other one to stay away from (I mean unless you want too).
The one you don’t like from is the typical after...
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A sugar baby rule that can not be stressed...
Make sure you have your OWN income(s) aside from your allowance(s). .
This may be the most important SB rule of all. Sugar money is not something that is necessarily guaranteed. It is a wonderfully amazing thing to receive cash, checks, and/or gifts —- but it is a horrific thing not to be prepared for a “rainy” day. Be smart.
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Did you know SD4M takes your photos and info off...
trophywifetruffle:
eastcoastsugar:
sugartruffle:
the more you know
You forgot to add that it’s an embarrassing ratchet mess. I suggest NEVER putting a full face pic on sugar websites ladies. When you use their site you agree to their terms of use (the fine print we never read), which I’m sure involves free reign over your photos. Save the face picture exchange for email correspondence.
...
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Newsflash: People have preferences
trophywifetruffle:
eastcoastsugar:
When it comes to dating: I don’t like really skinny guys. I don’t like really pale guys. I don’t like really dark guys. I don’t like gingers. I don’t like middle eastern guys. I don’t like guys with too much facial hair. I don’t like guys that are bald. I don’t like doctors.
Guess what? Those are MY preferences. Every person has a preference for things that...
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Public Service Announcement: CollarMe is not a...
trophywifetruffle:
Just because some one has money on there does NOT mean their looking for a sugarbaby.
They want someone in the BDSM community. Obviously. Stop complaining cause you can’t find a sugar daddy on there. THATS NOT WHAT THEY ARE THERE FOR.
Do you know what that means?
p.s if your taking money thats financial domination, if I’m not correct.
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Sugar Tip: COMPLIMENT THE JESUS OUT OF YOUR POT
toastysugar:
sugar-md:
I can’t tell you how many times there will be a hot sugar daddy on a website, and in my head I think “no way in hell” will this guy hook up with me…and of course I shoot them a message: “ERMERGUD U R SO SEXY + FINE ALL THE GIRLS MUST BE ALL OVER U”. Lo and behold! They message me back, thank me, and want to meet me :)
Do it do it do it do it.
stroke the ego
stroke...
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How to get more HITS & MESSAGES on your sugar...
smile-for-me-daddy:
So you signed up, made a profile and nothing is happening.
No messages, no winks, NO VISITS/ HITS!? A few simple changes and Pot’s will not longer skip over your profile.
Put up your BEST picture —- Men ARE VISUAL!!!! (Something tasteful and seductive/alluring ex: a great smile with boobs :) will melt his heart and make his penis jump)
Lots of pics with your head cut off...
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Follow this Step by Step to become a Sugarbaby
trophywifetruffle:
First you need to go to the Tundra in Ontario Canada and sacrifice a goat.
Once you sacrifice the goat, drain its blood and put it in a cheesecake frosted pot.
Take the pot and put it on the stove and bring the blood to a boil.
And 16 cups of sugar and 3 garlic cloves (to ward off vampires)
Put the blood on simmer and then go outside and do the rain dance till it...
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What type of girl are you?
meanlibertine:
No, this isn’t one of those silly quizzes that you take and then post the results on your livejournal. It’s a question to start you thinking.
What type of sugar baby are you?
There are so many types and I think that having a clear identity of who and WHAT you are helps determine your success in this type of a lifestyle. It also helps you get that sugar daddy that is going to...
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Helpful Websites To Learn Languages
rishidishtar:
les-langues-sont-ma-vie:
French
http://www.laits.utexas.edu/fi/home - I absolutely love this website. It has everything!
http://french.speak7.com/
http://www.bonjour.com/ - Shows pronunciations of words/phrases (which is extremely helpful) But it has limited vocab
http://www.french-at-a-touch.com/Words-Phrases/basic_phrases_links.htm
German
...
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So you want to be a Suga Baby? Here is my Sugar...
sexwork101:
SB/SD Dating Sites:
millionairedates.com seekingarrangement.com sugardaddie.com sugardaddyforme.com ashleymadison.com millionairesponsors.com sugardaddieworld.com sugardaddytoday.com clubsugardaddy.com sugardaddybabes.com dateamillionaire.com establishedmen.com sugarsugar.com whatsyourprice.com sugardaddymeet.com wealthymen.com myrichsugardaddy.com sugardaddyfinder.com...
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How to charm the cash out of your sugar daddy!
sugar-nextdoor:
These are some of my ultimate tips for being so irresistible that no man will ever be able to say no to you. Please add more to the list, I’d love to learn some new tricks!
1. Keep your skin silky soft - I love exfoliating with olive oil and sugar! I’m especially careful with keeping my hands soft, since touching his rough hands with your perfectly smooth, well-manicured...
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Value Added Sugar Baby
eastcoastsugar:
Outside of economics, value added refers to “extra” feature(s) of an item of interest (product, service, person etc.) that go beyond the standard expectations and provide something “more” while adding little or nothing to its cost. Value-added features give competitive edges to companies with otherwise more expensive products.
As a sugar baby consider yourself a commodity (In...
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How to charm the cash out of your sugar daddy!...
sugar-nextdoor:
You can find part 1 here.
8. Pheromone perfume! - I haven’t had the chance to really try this out, but it sounds like it’s worth a shot! Pheromones are chemicals that the body produces in order to attract others. Men release them through sweat, and women through their vajayjay. You can use it under your regular perfume, and there is actual scientific proof that it works!...
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SweetSugarandSpikes advice for new SBs
sweetsugarandspikes:
Where do I start looking for a POT? Okcupid, Plenty of Fish, and Craigslist are all awesome sites with tons of pots. What should I say in a message? Tell them about how you’re a single mother of 10, or that you have 2 felonies and a heroin addiction. Men love girls with baggage, they love “saving” women. What should I wear on a date? you should wear a fursuit. or a parka....
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*MY Sugar Baby Handbook.
nycsugar:
*This is for me, and what I’m looking for out of being a SB, if you agree that is great & can adopt this as your own, if not, that’s fine. This is just works for ME, not every single SB.
The minimum monthly allowance I will accept is $2,000.00
A POT will stay a POT until I receive one full months worth of allowance (and gifts if there are any), at that point he will be my SD.
If...
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Sugar Baby Must Have List:
curvysugar:
Pepper spray and/or taser
Fake phone number
Killer shoes
Common sense, I repeat, common sense
Bold lipstick
A separate email account only for sugaring
CONFIDENCE!
Feel free to add on!
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Sending pics using GV
misssugarysweet:
Very simple.
For computer use Step one: log into your email account associated with your GV Step two: scroll down the email list and find the person you want to send to Step three: click the email and open it Step four: hit the reply button and add an attachment Step five: send email with photo attached
For phone use Step one: go to your email account associated with GV ...
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Realise/Realize...
trophywifetruffle:
a tip for sugar babies and I guess sugar daddies dealing talking to POTs in other countries.
Take notice that what we do in our own country everybody doesn’t do in their own. I’ve seen some post about some POTs being dumb or have to be salty because there was something different about how they write.
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Context of an Allowance Agreement
trophywifetruffle:
yourpot:
Ok ok..I know some are sick of me posting but one theme I see is …is it too little money or just right.. I think one more important aspect that should be remembered is how you act in discussion of this.
Just my two cents princesses… But if you act like you NEED the money , the SDs will treat you accordingly, if you act like you DESERVE it…well you’ll attract a...
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Punctuality
trophywifetruffle:
My biggest pet peeve is not being on time. Appointments, dates, anything..
I hate other people not being on time either too.
Interviews/appointments always suggest that you arrive 10 minutes before early, that is on time. Treat your dates the same way.
I always leave 30-40 minutes early for everything. This helps if some obstacles occur, car trouble, traffic, etc. It...
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The Wikipedia Problem
eastcoastsugar:
Just because a guy has a Wikipedia page does not necessarily make him legitimate.
I’ve had a few guys be a little too easily google-able, or straight out give me the link to their Wiki and try to use that as a way to prove their worth.
I just tried and I can literally make a Wikipedia page for myself right now and say I’m worth $12 million and that I have a unicorn farm. It...
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Sugar Baby Tip
sugar-chanel:
Get your passport if you don’t have it. It might be kind of pricey (around $200), but be sure to get your passport/renew your passport as soon as you enter the sugar bowl.
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The Sugar Baby Guide to Travel
sexsellsandmoneytalks:
Because I literally get the most questions about this, and because I think I travel and aim for out-of-town POTs more than most of the other babies (correct me if I’m wrong) on Tumblr.
FAQ Do you recommend travelling to meet a POT? Absolutely. One of my most reliable SDs actually lived in California while I was living in Texas. I send about 60% of my messages to out of...
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More Background Check Tips & Tricks:
eastcoastsugar:
This is a helpful tool that searches a few different things at once:
http://www.myhoneysuckle.com/escort-screening-tool/
And some more tips, these are for escorts but can certainly be applied to sugar babies:
You want to search for clues to verify your potential client is, in fact, who they are claiming to be.
Two themes to look for:
- Look for consistency.
- Look for any...
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The Lazy Sugar Baby's Guide to Contributing to the...
sugar-nextdoor:
Read the news! Might be obvious, but always keep up with the news. A local paper, national that has plenty of international coverage and the occasional news magazine is a good place to start. You don’t have to read it word by word. If you, like me, sometimes slip up on your daily cup of knowledge, make sure you at least scroll the front page of a national paper’s website to get a...
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Virginity and Sugar:
calisugarbaby:
Now I remember what I wanted to say when I was responding to @sugar-chanel’s post. (BTW, y’all should follow her because she is awesome and keeps it real).
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Cameras, for those who take their own pictures.
trophywifetruffle:
Ok for starters I’m going to say a certain type of camera doesn’t take “great” pictures because it’s more expensive. DSLR’s just give you more control of your camera rather then the preset settings in a point-shoot camera. Even then I’ve seen Point-shoot pictures that look better than DSLR’s.
What is a DSLR? Interchangeable Lens camera, with a variety of manual settings....
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Sugar Baby Shopping Tips
eastcoastsugar:
Every sugar baby needs a good wardrobe so when a sugar daddy takes you shopping try to keep these in mind to get the most bang for your buck.
1) Your best friends are silk and cashmere:
I know it’s tempting to want to pick up the slinky polyester dress that is going to hug all of your curves but shop with his wallet as your budget and not yours. Silk and cashmere are timeless...
